I need a little help and advice :(
I moved my tetras and stuff over to a larger tank in September. It's 37 gallons. It was cycled- when I put them in these were the test results: 0 ammonia, 89.5 GH, 53.7 KH, 0 nitrites, 10 nitrates, 7.2 PH. That's where it pretty much held in the tank I had them in before. The difference in their old tank and the new tank is that the new one has eco-complete for gravel instead of the common kind, a good amount of drift wood, more live plants, and no fluval- just the over hanging filter. Also, it has a large bubble wand instead of a very tiny one. There was also an undergravel filter in both tanks. All the parameters have held steady (except there are slightly LESS nitrates) except the PH, which has been slowly climbing and seems to be wanting to push past the 8.0 mark now. It's been showing in my tetras for a while, they don't look as sleek and healthy as they should, and finally I've started to loose them. Last night I lost 2 of them, the night before that I lost 2 more, and the night before that I lost a ghost catfish- he was stuck to the filter (alive but worn out) when I woke up.

This is slightly old, the rocks that were in there, even though I had the same ones in a tank before and it always had a low PH, were taken out, and there are also more plants now. (Oh, and the driftwood came from Dr. Fosters and Smith so I'm not worried that it was unsafe for use.)
I have an RO unit in my apartment that I can get about 3 gallons of water from in a day, and I don't mind buying stripped bottle water, but how do I (can I even) safely alter the PH? I tried a 25% water change with RO water a few weeks ago- but that was fruitless, all it did was drop to 7.4 and then bounce back up to 8 within two hours. I feel like it probably just caused more stress on the fish.. The water is always tea-stained from the driftwood, I thought that it was supposed to help keep the PH lower... I'm at a loss. So, like I said, I would love any help or advice. Thank you so much!