My ADF's haven't produced young (that I've found) but I have some links to web sites on rearing their tadpoles at
http://www.fishpondinfo.com/frog4.htm"I purchased a heater and set it at 75 degrees and have tried different aeraters, but that swirling water seems to send the poor tads on a needless wild ride through their environment, with some getting caught in bubbles on the side and drying up. *sigh*"
They need some water movement but it sounds like what you had was just way too strong. Attach a gang valve to your air pump and open one of the valves out to the air to release the pressure enough so that the air bubbles are very gentle and don't bounce the poor guys around.
"I cannot filter the water for fear of the tads getting stuck in the filter, so the water is a bit murky after about three weeks of not cleaning it."
There are aeration-driven sponge and corner filters that you can use. Tadpoles can't get sucked into sponge filters. You can put a piece of pantyhose over the intake of a corner filter to keep them from getting sucked into it. Both are run by the air stones/aeration so you can regulate how strong they are. I've used such setups for salamander larvae and minute fish fry without problems.
"I hear it's a difficult if not impossible task, but any help would be greatly appreciated!"
I've read it's hard. I've yet to have a chance myself as I said though. I hope some of the links on my site still work and are of help to you. Good luck!