Yes thats right, a serious topic by HD, I just want to get everyones opinion, because I have this friend and this friend wants to know if he should go all the way with his girlfriend. And the girl and I, I mean my friend have been going out for a while, but we I mean they are under the legal age.

Advise Please, and not just from the older members, young members can sometimes be just as helpful, or maybe even more helpful.

Wow, this is heavy! Okay, I'll weigh in with my opinion ^_^

Personally I think sexuality is a normal part of life for all humans, and it can be wonderful, but that doesn't mean you should rush into it, I think that you should really think seriously about it before you make the decision to have sex. I have no religious motivations here, I don't think sex is anything to be ashamed of, or that its dirty or wrong. But I do think its an important part of life, and like all important parts/aspects/decisions of life it shouldn't be entered into lightly. Make sure you know your partner and really think about if you want to share this with them, at the same time don't psych yourself out. A lot of people build up their first time so much that they think it has to be perfect, and trust me you will only be setting yourself up for dissapointment if you expect perfection because the first time is never what you think it will be like. ABOVE ALL ELSE make sure you know about protection options, so you and your partner can be safe and happy. Sex also usually changes relationships (especially if you are not that experienced or you really care about the person) so keep that in mind before you make the decision.

The bottom line from me is this: if you really have thought this out and want to, go for it, but make sure you're protected and don't expect too much, you'll have plenty of time and opportunity to have sex later if the relationship develops, so don't put a lot of pressure on the first time. Good luck!

don't rush it's not that big of a deal and emeraldartemis is right don't rush it just let it happen and the first time is by far not the best sex you'll ever have but things do get better alot better with experince as with all things, but make sure it's coo wit her cause really the girl is making one of the biggest decisions in her life. And always wear a CONDOM.

Why do I get the feeling that those comments were directed towards me.

Remember guys we are talking about my friend.

Let's just say the comments are directed to everyone in general.

If you're a teenager and want to have sex, it's normal. But yeah, you need to think about it before you decide to do it. And if you do do it then, for gods sakes, use a condom.

Well Doing, 'The Act' is a big step in a relationship, so You your friend, should really have a long think about whether they are ready to make that step, even if they dont plan to get married, whether they want to do it is entirely up to them. Sex before marriage doesnt really have a big meaning in mainstream society...And If they, are both under the legal age of consent, theres not much that could happen...aslong as they take precautions...And anyway, If i know i've helped someone get laid...I feel like i've made a difference...

/agree o.o;