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Title: Love is it really a many splendored thing?


emeraldartemis - July 3, 2005 05:15 PM (GMT)
When I saw the love forum was back I thought "wow cool", and then I realized I have NO love life and therefore won't really have a lot to say in this forum afterall <_<

Oh well, I like to think I give good advice about relationship problems so I thought I can at least offer my advice, sometimes its good to have somebody's perspective on a situation who isn't involved, that way you get a truly objective take on the issue.

Lion - July 3, 2005 08:30 PM (GMT)
Love is great.. I had a big love life. long stories

emeraldartemis - July 3, 2005 09:24 PM (GMT)
Yeah I have had relationships in the past, one really serious one where we were together for three years. But ever since I ended that I've been enduring a VERY extended dry spell. But one thing I have learnt from my own experiences and from what I've seen other people go through, the worst thing you can do is just date any ol person who comes along just so that you can say your dating somebody. It sounds like a stupid thing to do, but you'd be surprised how many people do it because they don't want to be alone or they need constant affirmations from somebody of the opposite sex. So even though I am nowgetting a bit sick of the single life, I still would rather be alone than be with somebody who wasn't right for me.

Lion - July 4, 2005 12:53 AM (GMT)
My love life wasn't easy... 5 girlfriends.. and 3 almost girlfriends, They all involved of a big story which I might tell you all one day.

But still, Love is the Greatest thing

Teru-chan - July 4, 2005 12:25 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (emeraldartemis @ Jul 4 2005, 03:15 AM)
When I saw the love forum was back I thought "wow cool", and then I realized I have NO love life and therefore won't really have a lot to say in this forum afterall <_<

thats just what i was thinking. :o

Next Gen Cowboy - July 4, 2005 03:21 PM (GMT)
Bah I dont know about this love thing, I have never had a girlfriend, but that doesnt mean I havnt and do not care for people, I just never really got into a solid relationship or at least never an officail one.

Apollo - July 4, 2005 03:23 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Maximilion Pegasus @ Jul 3 2005, 08:53 PM)
But still, Love is the Greatest thing

In my opinion, fajitas are the greatest thing.

I have nothing too good to add on to this subject. I'm not interested into getting into some serious relationship, but I'm not gonna die alone, I tell you.

Next Gen Cowboy - July 4, 2005 04:14 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Asterix. @ Jul 4 2005, 11:23 AM)
but I'm not gonna die alone, I tell you.

me either I am gonna take as many people out with me as I can =p

emeraldartemis - July 4, 2005 06:29 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Next Gen Cowboy @ Jul 4 2005, 10:14 AM)
QUOTE (Asterix. @ Jul 4 2005, 11:23 AM)
but I'm not gonna die alone, I tell you.

me either I am gonna take as many people out with me as I can =p

Both you guys (Asterix and NGC) are highly intelligent, funny and charming, I'm sure it'll be just a matter of time for you both :) (but then again I know from personal experience that when people tell you that its not always much of a consolation).

This is turning kinda sad pretty quick, is there anybody on this board who has a significant other? Please give me some hope that relationships are possible! Hugs!!*****

Lion - July 4, 2005 07:29 PM (GMT)
I haven't had a serious relantionship in months

Teru-chan - July 5, 2005 11:51 AM (GMT)
I'm Destined to be forever stuck in the 'Close Friends' zone.

Elevate - July 5, 2005 09:29 PM (GMT)
Never rly been in love, liked girlz, been out with them, but no such thing as love.

emeraldartemis - July 5, 2005 10:59 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Teruraku @ Jul 5 2005, 05:51 AM)
I'm Destined to be forever stuck in the 'Close Friends' zone.

Thats a tough situation to be in. My advice, when you like a girl be a little more agressive, like flirt more and stuff like that, that way she'll know you're interested in being more than just friends.

But its a tough situation I know, I have the opposite problem. Although I do have guys who are just friends, the majority of the time when I meet a guy and am nice to him just because I am being nice and making conversation they think that means I am interested and that leads to all kinds of complications. If only you and I could somehow combine our dating strategies we'd be unstoppable! :lol:

Teru-chan - July 6, 2005 11:43 AM (GMT)
I think I'm way too nice. The whole Sensitive New Age Guy thing isn't working for me.

emeraldartemis - July 6, 2005 05:17 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Teruraku @ Jul 6 2005, 05:43 AM)
I think I'm way too nice. The whole Sensitive New Age Guy thing isn't working for me.

Trust me don't give up on being a nice guy, there are already an accute shortage of them out there. Another hint: try to associate more with single girls, if you meet a girl who is attached of course shes going to think of you as a friend, and then that stigma kinda sticks and then everyone thinks of you that way. Hang in there, it'll work out ^_^

Apollo - July 6, 2005 08:43 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Teruraku @ Jul 6 2005, 07:43 AM)
I think I'm way too nice. The whole Sensitive New Age Guy thing isn't working for me.

Just give her a crapload of expensive stuff. She'll love you forever. Remember, all girls are selfish biatches when it comes right down to it.

Next Gen Cowboy - July 6, 2005 08:47 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Asterix. @ Jul 6 2005, 04:43 PM)
QUOTE (Teruraku @ Jul 6 2005, 07:43 AM)
I think I'm way too nice. The whole Sensitive New Age Guy thing isn't working for me.

Just give her a crapload of expensive stuff. She'll love you forever. Remember, all PEOPLE are selfish biatches when it comes right down to it.

Thats better =p

Of course I dont think that but it made for some funny

Apollo - July 6, 2005 09:02 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Next Gen Cowboy @ Jul 6 2005, 04:47 PM)
QUOTE (Asterix. @ Jul 6 2005, 04:43 PM)
QUOTE (Teruraku @ Jul 6 2005, 07:43 AM)
I think I'm way too nice. The whole Sensitive New Age Guy thing isn't working for me.

Just give her a crapload of expensive stuff. She'll love you forever. Remember, all PEOPLE are selfish biatches when it comes right down to it.

Thats better =p

Of course I dont think that but it made for some funny

Good one. I salute you. Both statements are true, though. Everyone is a selfish bahustad. That's why presents are good in relationships, usually.

Next Gen Cowboy - July 6, 2005 09:04 PM (GMT)
I know I am selfish but hey...it happens

Apollo - July 6, 2005 09:07 PM (GMT)
Indeed.

Now that I think of it, I'm better off being good friends with people than getting in big relationship with them. Most times I think I'm "In love", usually is just that I have a little crush on them or admire them. =/

Teru-chan - July 7, 2005 11:57 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (emeraldartemis @ Jul 7 2005, 03:17 AM)
QUOTE (Teruraku @ Jul 6 2005, 05:43 AM)
I think I'm way too nice. The whole Sensitive New Age Guy thing isn't working for me.

Trust me don't give up on being a nice guy, there are already an accute shortage of them out there. Another hint: try to associate more with single girls, if you meet a girl who is attached of course shes going to think of you as a friend, and then that stigma kinda sticks and then everyone thinks of you that way. Hang in there, it'll work out ^_^

I'd never go after a Girl who was already in a relationship, thats just wrong. I have several Female friends that i've known since we were little kids, i guess they are just so used to being friends, they probably couldn't imagine anything more.




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