*Names changed to protect the innocents*

Well It's for my friend really, I just wanted to consult this situation, To see if i'm the only one who thinks this way. here's the thing.

My best friend.. which for Identity protection I will call her: "Gangsta" she's 14. Well... for awhile she has been chatting from a so called "Music Producer" from the U.S.A he's 17 if i'm not wrong, well the thing is that she has this dream of becoming a reggeaton artist(Reggeaton is rap/Hip hop in spanish here in PR) well.. She's been talking with this so called "Producer" for a while, and suddenly out of nowhere a couple of days ago she tells me: "Remenber my producer? He fell in love with me, and told me yesterday!! he even created a picture of us together.A heart with both their pictures. That saids(Once again protecting identities.) "Guy loves Gangsta" A couple of days later she tells me: "He told me that he loves me!! and asked me to be his girlfriend, and I accepted!!" "He's also coming in september to see me, I wish he moves here..."


The thing is that she's on cloud 9 for this guy, who she even din't began talking on the phone, till a couple of days ago, But still.. I find it kinda of fishy.. so suddenly in love? Plus.. I know how guys are that age are, specially with Latina girls.. I dunno.. but I'm kinda of worried about her, I'm afraid that if he mistreats her or something she'll have the depression of her life, she won't recover from it, something tells me that something is wrong here, but I don't have the guts to tell her that she has to be prepared for everything. so Any advice from you all will be apreciated.

OK buddy i am here to help!

3 things:

1. Watch out for her always. Try to make her see that boys are dangerous and after rly only 2 things, sex and money!

2. Do you live near her? if u do make sure when and if he does come to watch over her, if he does anythin #### his ass up.

D-12 for the love of god, edit your #3, You are a mod now, u must behave and give an example to all the boys and girls of storm will

First of all, their relationship is almost ILLEGAL. And I don't see why a 17-year-old American "Music producer" would be interested in getting hooked up with a 14-year-old latina girl. So him harming her emotionally is the least of what you should be worried about. Keep an eye on this guy, Gabe. He might be worse than she thinks. Talk to her about how you're worried, and think this guy might be dangerous.

i can agree with that. Pegasus, if you know this girl, watch out for her.

OK me sorry, but u say she got a nice ass, i wouldn't mind seeing it :)

yea just watch out for her

.....and post a pic lol j/k

D-12 i don't have pics of her she just showed them to me.

Anyway.. I removed ur num#3 Remenber u gotta give an example, now that ur are a mod

Ok............wow............ok.....how to say this without sounding like b1tch

Ok, your friend is only 14 so it goes without saying that she knows nothing about love or relatiionships because she hasn't had time to experiece much of life yet. Heres the harsh part, and I don't want to be too harsh because she is your friend Pegasus and she is naive, but come on, the way she is acting in this situation is moronic. What does a guy have to do to make her realize hes bad news, wear a sign around his neck that says "I am a child molester?!" NO 17 year old is a music producer, at the very most he knows some people who have their own label or are starting their own label, this is a far cry from being able to jump start your friend's career. Also as Asterix pointed out this is not only wildly inappropriate it is also illegeal. The guy sounds like total creep who is up to no good. Hey news flash to your friend: PEOPLE LIE, PEOPLE ARE DANGEROUS. Just because a guy she has never met before says he loves you DOESN'T MAKE IT TRUE!!!!!! And also where the hell are her parents!? Shes only 14 for Goddess's sake, her parents don't see anything wrong with this!? Also shes 14, the most important thing in her life right now should be getting an education and concentrating on working on her musical skills. No 14 year old girl is going to be taken seriously in the hip hop community anyway, best to work on her music and wait until she is old enough, mature enough and emotionally and financially prepared to really make a foray into the music industry instead of trying to bypass all that and end up with some guy who is in all reality probably a psycho axe murderer. Does your friend live in the same world as everyone else, doesn't she realize how crazy and dangerous most people are?! Your friend needs a serious reality check, and this guy needs to be arrested at the very least if he attempts to shack up with a 14 year old CHILD.

Qouted for the truth most 24 year olds dont really know #### about relationships or love for that matfer

<_< True, but whats that supposed to mean? Sounds like that remark is laced with innuendo <_< Maybe you just made a typo :lol:

None at all i am simply saying that alot of people have no clue about love at all, even at 24, 34, 44 to truly be in love with someone at the age of 14 especialy someone you have never met, I just dont think it can happen.

Please dont take this as an attack on yourself that thought never even crossed my mind when I poosted this. You know it as well.

I am happy as I have ever been and I completely understand why you made the choice you did, we all have to make choices you know. In the end it was the right one. Painful, possibly, but right none the less.

And yeah that was a mistake on my part, I meant 14, however in some cases it is still true some 24 year olds really dont know (obviously not yours though)

emeraldartemis, Her mother knows, she told her, and Her mother freaked out big time, and even Threten to kill off her Messenger.

I think her messenger got killed, I haven't seen her in a couple of days.

Yes, I know she doesn't live the reality, She studies in a private school, and I always said that Private schools are keeping children from the reality, Reggeaton is also a little Unreal, Unlike their Cousin Rap/Hip-hop, Reggeaton is a little more unrealistic, and tends to make people act Imaturealy.

I agree with u emeraldartemis, and Thanks

Peggy is this a "friend of a friend" story.

Also I think you need to control yourself as well the way you speak of a 14 year old at your age, my goodness man.

You cannot really tel D12 to represent himself with dignity when you are saying stuff like this how old are you man?

I had to say it to point out an important part of the story

(she has a very mature body for her age) see no need to point out her ass.

you're right sorry, I'll edit it, Anyway what about some advice?

the only advice to give it that, if yoiu really do know her, you should look out for her, and if this 'producer' guy trys anything funny...is to make sure she does not get hurt. and if possible try to advise her not to meet this guy, cos it will probably end up breaking her heart anyway.

Problem solved she dumped him, she just told me about it. she realized she dint' truly love him. instead she likes another guy that lives more closer to her

Now all you have to do is keep an eye on her new boyfriend.

He just might be a movie producer. D:

damn that was quick, lol nice.