Title: She likes me or not?
Lion - July 24, 2005 05:05 PM (GMT)
Ok, here's the thing, I use to have a small relationship with this girl, Until she ended it about a year ago.. Now a year later, She has this Obssesion of me finding a Girlfriend..
She keeps saying stuff like: "I hope you find a cute, smart, nice girl" or "When will you do a Master degree in getting married" "If you study all those stuff, You won't have time to find yourself a girl" or "That friend of yours.. She could be perfect girl for ya, too bad she's younger than you", "You became lazy at the end of the semester? umm.. Someone is rocking your world!!" And she keeps at it, and at it, Could anyone tell me what's wrong with this girl??
Elevate - July 24, 2005 06:36 PM (GMT)
Either she likes u or she has no life
Knux Stravier - July 24, 2005 07:11 PM (GMT)
Maybe she wants the best for you, or likes you. Why not just ask her? What's the worst that could happen?
Elevate - July 24, 2005 09:20 PM (GMT)
I say she is a stalker...or physico...any other names work aswell.
Lion - July 24, 2005 10:37 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Knux Stravier @ Jul 24 2005, 03:11 PM) |
| Maybe she wants the best for you, or likes you. Why not just ask her? What's the worst that could happen? |
The best of me?? What I mentioned is just a small drop. She has kept at it for weeks. somehow someway she pops up the topic
Knux Stravier - July 24, 2005 10:40 PM (GMT)
Oh, well then she probably likes you...or wants the best for you and is super obsessive
Teru-chan - July 25, 2005 10:50 AM (GMT)
Maybe she has repressed emotional issues.
emeraldartemis - July 25, 2005 08:31 PM (GMT)
This is very odd. How old is this girl? She seems rather immature, especially if this is how she tells you she likes you. Just ask her flat out why she is always badgering you about this. If she gives some lame reason tell her that you know shes trying to help but that it isn't helping and that she should just give it a rest. Somebody should also tell her that at your age the last thing you should be dying to do is get married, its nice to have a boyfriend/girlfriend but its not the only thing in life you know.
Next Gen Cowboy - July 25, 2005 08:41 PM (GMT)
I dont eveen know if I understand whats going on here, for starters how old is this girl?
Second what is she talking about? I understand if a girl likes you or vice versa and you know it cannot work out no matter what happens they wish you well and hope for the best (ie you will find another girl/boy one that is great) but this seems like its going a little overboard.
Lion - July 26, 2005 12:05 AM (GMT)
Elevate - July 28, 2005 04:18 PM (GMT)
I say she just wants to bust ur balls.
emeraldartemis - July 28, 2005 11:48 PM (GMT)
Well are you interested in dating her at all Pegasus, if it does turn out this is all because she likes you?
Lion - July 29, 2005 12:15 AM (GMT)
Kiara - July 29, 2005 12:04 PM (GMT)
wow... that's annoying. i kno wat you're going through since one of my guy frirend does that, only because he thinks i'm lonely. anyway i think she's trying to help in some way, but i think you should tell her to back off a bit and that you'll find a girl.
sorry if that doesn't help
Lion - July 29, 2005 02:59 PM (GMT)
What I told you guys, it's only a small grasp of what she has told me, She's weird or psycho..
emeraldartemis - July 30, 2005 04:25 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (DekaBreak @ Jul 29 2005, 08:59 AM) |
| What I told you guys, it's only a small grasp of what she has told me, She's weird or psycho.. |
You said that you weren't sure if you wanted to date her, but then you said shes like a psycho. Trust me, enough people turn out to be psychos AFTER you start dating them, the last thing you want to do is start dating somebody who ALREADY is acting psycho.
That said, I can kinda relate to your problem. My friends and familiy frequently hassle me about getting a "nice" boyfriend (although none of them are as persistent as your friend) and just telling them to knock it off doesn't always work. All you can really do is ignore it and don't bring things up like dating, because it just gives them another opportuinity to hassle you about it. But if this girl is REALLY unbearable about all this it seems like you don't have much of a choice, you'll have to start phasing her out of your life to maintain your sanity. If you don't want to do that explain to her that this constant meddling has gotten so aggravating that although she is your friend, if she persists it will mean that your friendship is going to suffer because of it, or might end all together.